Neurodiversity-affirming* therapy for women, non-binary and fem people.

*A supportive, strengths-based approach that understands autism, ADHD, and other neurotypes as natural variations - not problems to be fixed.

Online therapy that meets you where you are - not where you “should” be.

If life feels loud, heavy, or hard to make sense of, you’re not alone.

You might be managing anxiety, low mood, burnout, or a constant sense of overwhelm.

You may have spent years masking, people-pleasing, or trying to keep up — only to feel disconnected, exhausted, or unsure of who you are underneath it all.

Sometimes it looks like coping…

But inside, it can feel very different.

I’m Roxy, a qualified therapist offering online counselling for adults with a focus on neurodiverse women, non-binary and fem people, including those who are self-identified or diagnosed later in life.

Therapy isn’t about pushing through.
It’s about creating space to notice, to feel, and to relate to yourself differently.

You’re welcome here, exactly as you are.

Who
I am

Hi, I’m Roxy

I’m an integrative humanistic counsellor offering online therapy to adults across the UK.

I am outgoing and curious. I love to take an interest in things around me and consider their effect, purpose or meaning. In therapy that often means slowing things down and really listening — to what’s being said, and also to what’s harder to put into words. I’m naturally thoughtful and empathic, and I bring that into the therapy space in a way that feels supportive and grounded.

I’m not a therapist who sits back in silence or analyses you from a distance. I’m present, engaged, and genuinely interested in understanding your experience, as you experience it.

The way I work is shaped not just by 4 years of training and over 100 hours with clients, but by what I value: honesty, kindness and context.

Outside of therapy, I tend to keep life fairly simple. I love time in nature, road trips, smiling at strangers, slower rhythms, and being around animals. Those things aren’t separate from my work — they influence how I think about wellbeing, and what it means to feel more settled and connected in yourself.

If you’re looking for a therapist who will meet you as a real person — not a problem to solve — that’s what I to offer.

Testimonials From Clients:

“You’ve been incredibly helpful in explaining my thought processes and giving me the space to explore things in detail, even when I’ve needed to focus on a topic for a while before I could properly move past it. Your approach is always non-judgemental, which has made it much easier for me to open up.

It’s really clear how passionate you are about helping people, especially with all the thoughtful resources you’ve shared with me – like the helpful apps and the personalized self-care and reflection routines you created.

Thank you again for all your support.”

“I had an amazing experience with Roxy, out of all my previous therapists, I've felt the most understood and comfortable with her.

I have made amazing progress with her and I will be always grateful for the time and therapeutic relationship we had.

I will miss this level of care and compassion and will cherish it forever."

How
I work

Therapy with me is shaped around your pace, your needs, and what feels most important to bring each session, whatever that looks like for you.

I practise integrative humanistic counselling, drawing from different approaches while keeping our relationship at the centre as the most important part. You’re never treated as a problem to solve, but as a person to understand. I work alongside you with curiosity, care, and respect for your experience.

You don’t need to arrive knowing where to start or having the “right” words. This is a space to pause, reflect, and think out loud — without pressure to perform or make everything make sense straight away.

Much of our work may focus on understanding the patterns that feel confusing or exhausting. Often, these began as ways of coping or staying emotionally safe. As we explore them together, you can begin to relate to yourself with more compassion and clarity.

I have seen this alone bring enormous change and relief to people.

We might explore things like anxiety, low mood, self-criticism, people-pleasing, relationship patterns, or identity — always guided by what feels most relevant to you. Alongside talking, we may also find small, realistic ways to support your day-to-day wellbeing — helping you feel more grounded, steady, and connected.

We start wherever you are, and go from there.

My Approach

Tell me about you…

If you’re considering therapy, you’re welcome to reach out — even if you’re unsure or have questions. Everyone (18+) is welcome.

You can contact me via this form to book a free 20 minute introductory call to see whether working together feels like the right fit. (If you can, try to include what subject/s you want to bring to therapy, and your availability for counselling sessions.)

There’s no pressure or obligation. Sometimes starting with a conversation is enough.

Frequently Asked Questions

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Therapy policy

This is my full Therapy policy (online) that client’s will receive in their first session.

Full Therapy Policy (online) by Roxy Henley